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What an interesting concept so influenced by culture. For some cultures, forgiveness is an unknown concept due to being so intensely linked as a community \u2014 what one does to one, one does to all. For other cultures, forgiveness plays no role in life. Eye for an eye. In our culture, it seems to mean, \u201cIf I forgive them, that means that I am saying what they did is ok.\u201d\r\n\r\nAs someone who used to struggle under that misconception, I didn\u2019t realize how trapped I was by my own desire for the other person to admit they were wrong (I didn\u2019t need a get on your knees and beg kind of apology \u2014 although, at times I thought it was merited, but just an acknowledgement of wrong-doing.) It took some seriously tough to let go of situations (as in I was still seething and they were off tra-la-la-ing) for me to realize that the unforgiveness was only hurting one person. Me. And I was so good at my social face that the offender rarely realized that they were living in the cold, icy confines of my unforgiveness glacier. (In fact, I think they probably felt fairly tropical because I did my best to avoid them.) I finally came to understand that forgiveness isn\u2019t about freeing the other person, its about freeing myself. \r\n\r\nAfter I realized why it was so important to forgive (so I could tra-la-la too), I had to come to grips with my firmly held desire for justice and my unwillingness to do anything that would even remotely encourage that kind of awfulness to continue. It took quite a bit of mental wrangling before I finally got it! I could trust God to take care of any just desserts that needed dishing and move on with my life (I mean look at what he did to that nasty Pharaoh person who wouldn\u2019t let His people go free because they were great pyramid slaves.)\r\n\r\nLeaving me with my final stumbling block \u2014 letting go of my belief that forgiveness meant forgetting and going on as before.\r\n\r\nI don\u2019t know how it happened, but one day a light bulb went off for me. Just because I forgive someone, doesn\u2019t mean I have to let them do it again. I could still draw boundaries, just like I did in my normal day to day world and if I chose to not have relationship with the dastardly do-er anymore, I didn\u2019t have to. It all came down to understanding that I choose how people treat me and I don\u2019t have to choose to let that person do his or her dastardly all over my life.\r\n\r\nBreak ups can be nasty grudge incubators (as can day to day relationships), so I thought that bringing up forgiveness might be important. Does anyone have any helpful suggestions you use to help you move past unforgiveness and into forgiveness? Any situations where you just don\u2019t think forgiveness is an option? You just woke up a natural forgiver and don\u2019t see what all the fuss is about?","bf_date_debut_evenement":"2023-04-16","bf_date_fin_evenement":"2023-04-16","bf_site_internet":"","bf_adresse":"","bf_code_postal":"","bf_ville":"","id_typeannonce":"2","id_fiche":"LessForgetfulForgiveness","date_creation_fiche":"2025-04-16 15:23:07","statut_fiche":"1","imagebf_image":"","fichierfichier":"","date_maj_fiche":"2025-04-16 15:23:07","bf_geolocation":{"latitude":"","longitude":"","geometries":""},"user":"74.7.227.51","owner":"","html_data":"data-bf_date_debut_evenement=\u00222023-04-16\u0022 data-bf_date_fin_evenement=\u00222023-04-16\u0022 data-id_typeannonce=\u00222\u0022 data-id_fiche=\u0022LessForgetfulForgiveness\u0022 data-date_creation_fiche=\u00222025-04-16 15:23:07\u0022 data-statut_fiche=\u00221\u0022 data-date_maj_fiche=\u00222025-04-16 15:23:07\u0022 ","url":"https:\/\/tav-marseille.xyz\/?LessForgetfulForgiveness","-is-external-":"0"},{"bf_titre":"Sales Pitch Gone Wrong","bf_description":"[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iAh4rM Public Displays of Affection]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4cJoOpU Secrets for a More Satisfying Relationship]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/42Kuong A Note To Guys About Helping Your Date Feel Safe]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iyySn7 Avoid the First Date Let Down]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4ixhb7g Letting Go of the Control Freak]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4iOHdDr Keep It Classy America]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3S29BGX How To Be More Emotionally Low Maintenance]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4itFT8I I Like Me!]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/4itFN0Q Why Are You Still Single?]]\r\n[[https:\/\/bit.ly\/3S56OwG How Do You Meet Someone New?]]\r\n\r\nTonight the phone rang. I checked caller ID and it was unavailable\u2026 some random 1-800 number. I almost didn\u2019t answer, but I thought better of it. I\u2019ve been able to stop most of these random calls by picking up the phone, hearing them ask for someone I\u2019ve never heard of, and telling them they have the wrong number. So yeah, I was a little sharp when I said \u201cHello?\u201d A woman was on the other end of the phone and the conversation went like this:\r\n\r\nHer: Is Mr. Wonder there?\r\n\r\nMe: There is no Mr. Wonder.\r\n\r\nHer: Oh\u2026. Mrs. Wonder?\r\n\r\nMe: No, there\u2019s no Mrs. Wonder either.\r\n\r\nHer: Ummmmm\u2026 I\u2019m calling for\u2026. Jane Wonder?\r\n\r\nMe: I\u2019m Jane Wonder but I\u2019m definitely not married.\r\n\r\nHer: Oh. This is Comcast and we recently got your order to disconnect\u2026  [insert sales pitch here]\r\n\r\nNow let me tell you something. I have had this cable account for two years. In those two years I have always been Ms. Wonder. There is no Mr. Wonder nor was there at any point in our cable relationship. Nor was I a Mrs. at any point. Which makes this an incredibly grave error. Especially on the part of a company which has had a two year relationship with me.\r\n\r\nLet me be clear. This is not a random sales pitch. It\u2019s not a cold sales call where some telemarketer doesn\u2019t know what they\u2019re walking into. No. This was a call from my cable company of two years. My cable company which I have paid, on time, a rather large sum of money every single month. My cable company who ought to know exactly who I am or at least have a cheat sheet attached to my file so they can pretend to. Furthermore, the cable company was making this particular call to try to entice me to give them yet more money and not cancel my service. They were trying to strengthen our relationship.\r\n\r\nHow can you strengthen a relationship with a customer by assuming because she is a woman she must be married and because she must be married her husband must be the default person in charge of the account? Especially when there has never, not once not ever, been a man\u2019s name on said account? How do you expect to sell anything to a woman after telling her her non-existent husband is their preferred person to talk to?\r\n\r\nIf you see this Comcast, never fear. I terminated service because I\u2019m moving. And there already was no need for me to transfer my service. However, if there had been a chance for me to do that, you would have ruined it the moment you asked for Mr. Wonder, my non-existent husband that your sales rep made up because every woman must be married and her husband must be in charge of everything. And if you intend to continue to do business with anyone, you need to train your people to pay attention to the names on those accounts and not assume every woman is a voiceless little housewife. You\u2019ll certainly piss off less people that way. And less pissed off customers equals better business for you. So I hope this turns up in your tireless searches through the internet for dissatisfied customers. Because I\u2019m dissatisfied Comcast. I\u2019m dissatisfied because after two years of taking my money, you can\u2019t even figure out who has been paying you all that time.\r\n\r\nHmph. Glad I got that out of my system at least. Now pardon me while I take out my aggression by packing some boxes.\r\n\r\nUpdate: Comcast formally apologized to me after this entry was posted. Unfortunately, later this same week another Comcast rep called me about my internet service AND DID THE SAME THING. When I complained, she told me it is their policy to ask for Mr. or Mrs. on every sales call. So Comcast lied to me when they said it shouldn\u2019t have happened. And Comcast in fact trains their staff to behave this way. Not only is it unacceptable to assume everyone is married, but it is unacceptable for any business to ask to speak to someone who has never been listed on a given account. I recommend everyone take this into account when deciding whether or not to use Comcast as a cable\/internet\/phone carrier. And I firmly recommend that you find another alternative. An alternative who will only speak to the account holder. 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